रविवार, ९ सप्टेंबर, २०१२

Farooq Abdullah unhappy with daughter's wedding to Pilot's son


http://jammukashmirrealities.blogspot.in/2010/12/farooq-abdullah-unhappy-with-daughters.html



Farooq Abdullah unhappy with daughter's wedding to Pilot's son

Last updated on: January 15, 2004 23:22 IST
http://www.rediff.com/news/2004/jan/15jk.htm



Dr Abdullah has been criticised for his relations with Rajesh Pilot�s family, though he is himself married to a Christian nurse, Molly. Earlier, his son Omar Abdullah married a Sikh girl, Payal Singh, and has two children despite his mother Begum Akbar Jehan�s opposition. While Dr Abdullah�s eldest daughter Safia is married to a Muslim engineer Asif Khan and settled in Jammu and Kashmir, his second daughter Hena is married to an African based black Christian.


QUOTE
Farooq Abdullah unhappy with daughter's wedding to Pilot's son
Onkar Singh in New Delhi | January 15, 2004 22:25 IST

Many expected an alliance between the Abdullah and Pilot families to be celebrated in a grand manner.

But their children - Sara Abdullah and Sachin Pilot - tied the knot on Thursday afternoon at a quiet ceremony in Delhi, which was boycotted by the former's family.

Dr Farooq Abdullah is reportedly in London while his son Omar Abdullah is undergoing treatment at Batra Hospital in Delhi for suspected appendicitis.

The much-awaited wedding took place in the presence of only close relatives and friends of the bridegroom at 20, Canning Lane, the official residence of Rama Pilot who represents Dausa constituency, in Rajasthan, in Parliament.

It is not clear if it involved Hindu or Muslim rituals or was just a registered marriage. The venue had been declared out of bounds for mediapersons who had turned up to cover the event.

It is likely to kick up a furore in Jammu and Kashmir with terrorist groups expected to whip up public sentiment against the Abdullah family on the issue of a Muslim girl marrying a Hindu boy.

Srinagar is ripe with speculation that Dr Abdullah has disowned his daughter.

Incidentally, Omar Abdullah is married to a Sikh.
===================

http://www.rediff.com/news/2004/jan/15jk.htm

Farooq Abdullah unhappy with daughter's wedding to Pilot's son
Last updated on: January 15, 2004

Many expected an alliance between the Abdullah and Pilot families to be celebrated in a grand manner. While Dr Farooq Abdullah [ Images ] is the former chief minister of Jammu and Kashmir [ Images ], the late Rajesh Pilot [ Images ] was a senior and much respected leader of the Congress.

But their children - Sara Abdullah and Sachin Pilot [ Images ] - tied the knot on Thursday afternoon at a quiet ceremony in Delhi [ Images ], which was boycotted by the former's family.


Dr Farooq Abdullah is reportedly in London [ Images ] while his son Omar Abdullah [ Images ] is undergoing treatment at Batra Hospital in Delhi for suspected appendicitis.

The much-awaited wedding took place in the presence of only close relatives and friends of the bridegroom at 20, Canning Lane, the official residence of Rama Pilot who represents Dausa constituency, in Rajasthan [ Images ], in Parliament.

It is not clear if it involved Hindu or Muslim rituals or was just a registered marriage. The venue had been declared out of bounds for mediapersons who had turned up to cover the event.

For the Abdullahs, who are passing through a difficult phase after their National Conference lost in the state assembly elections, the wedding could not have come at a worse time.

It is likely to kick up a furore in Jammu and Kashmir with terrorist groups expected to whip up public sentiment against the Abdullah family on the issue of a Muslim girl marrying a Hindu boy.

Srinagar [ Images ] is ripe with speculation that Dr Abdullah has disowned his daughter. Incidentally, Omar Abdullah is married to a Sikh.

But no member of either family came forward to speak to mediapersons.

With inputs from Mukhtar Ahmad in Srinagar
Onkar Singh in New Delhi
=================
http://sharma24.wordpress.com/2010/04/22/enigma-that-is-farooq-abdullah/


An Enigma that is Farooq Abdullah
APRIL 22, 2010
tags: Atal Bihari Vajpayee, Azad Kashmir, Congress Party, Farooq Abdullah, Hurriyat Conference, Jammu and Kashmir, Kashmir militancy, Kashmir politics, Mufti Mohammad Saeed, National Conference, Omar Abdullah, PDP, POK, Rahul Gandhi, Sajjad Lone
      4 Votes

He is the son of Sher-i-Kashmir Sheikh Abdullah. Has has had a comfortable life – as one would expect. Yet he is grounded and has no airs about him. He understands his people like no one else in Kashmir politics and his opponents fear him. Many a politicians have had their moorings in National Conference which includes some of the Islamist pro-Pakistan Hurriyat Conference. His initiation into politics was way back in 1981 when he first became the Chief Minister. He has been the chief minister of Jammu and Kashmir five times. He entered into an accord with Rajiv Gandhi and the Congress Party and headed the coalition government. He is quick to laugh and has an endearing smile. He does not inhibit himself even in front of the cameras and tears roll down his cheeks if he is moved enough. He willingly let his young son Omar head the party and National Conference had to sit in the opposition when People Democratic Party and the Congress formed the government with Mufti Saeed as the chief minister. Next time over, Farooq saw to it that he did not let go the reigns of the party completely and National Conference again came to power. It is said that the man knows his party functionaries from each district and tehsil by name. Married a British lady Molly and has three daughters and a son and is an adoring father.

Where does one start about Farooq Abdullah? The man has said many a times that he wants to be the president of India. Those who know him warn that he will then turn the state into a presidential form of government were he to enter Rashtrapati Bhavan!!! His foes say he has links in the CBI and is very close to the Gandhi family. The latter is surely true as Rahul Gandhi and Omar Abdullah are close friends and it was Rahul who prevailed that Omar be made the chief minister and not Farooq this time around. He is a man who cannot offer namaz on his own – he just does not know the routine. He is unorthodox and does not mind singing Vande Mataram in totality. He also does not shy away from the fact that his grandfather was a Kashmiri Pandit. His daughter-in-law (Omar’s wife) is a Hindu as is one of his sons-in-law – Sachin Pilot. When his daughter decided to marry Sachin, I am sure the Abdullah’s discussed it thread bare and decided that this was a tricky situation. It would have been political hara-kiri to be seen marrying his daughter to a Hindu boy.  Yet, the Abdullah’s knew that this was the right way to go. Farooq declared that he had nothing to do with his daughter, Sarah anymore and that as far as he was concerned she could go to hell!! Omar went incognito (believed to be undergoing treatment for appendicitis at Batra Hospital, Delhi). Sarah married Sachin on her own. Things settled down. A few years later Farooq Abdullah proudly posed with his son Omar and son-in-law Sachin outside the Parliament, beaming with a broad smile on his face. His elder daughter Hena is married to a black Christian and is settled in Africa. His eldest daughter is married to Asif Khan and is settled in Kashmir. That is Farooq Abdullah for you. A proud father who is uninhibited by orthodoxy, who would go that extra mile for the happiness of his kids and who is smart enough that no one can take political advantage of his personal decisions. It takes a lot to do what Farooq has done for his kids.


Farooq Abdullah

When Omar became the chief minister, Farooq had declared that he would be the next chief minister. Yet the Congress Party insisted on Omar. Farooq did not hesitate in giving the crown to young Omar. When the time for taajposhi (anointment) came he called all his family members and the Abdullah’s had a blast celebrating Omar’s success. He even sang a popular Bollywood number hoping for Omar’s success as chief minister.

Then there came a time when in the Shopian case the opposition tried to frame Omar and him. When the opposition made these charges on the floor of the house, an indignant Omar insisted that he will resign while his party men tried to dissuade him from taking any such hasty decision. Omar resigned and as expected went straight to his father. According to Omar, his father blasted him like he had never done and he felt like a ten year old. Farooq just could not understand as to how Omar could resign in such haste. Later Farooq came out and calmly told the press that whatever Omar did was right!!! And then he managed things such that the whole episode was forgotten!! Can anyone ask for a better parent?  Those who know Omar said that it was all about Payal (his wife) and he had to go back home, did he not?

There was a time when Farooq Abdullah became a part of the rightist political set up called the NDA. The man could not anticipate the kind of reaction such a move would have and his party lost the next election. He is a liberal man and for once he thought from his heart and not his head and paid the price. Farooq Abdullah was one of the politician’s who went with Atal Bihari Vajpayee to Pokharan when India tested nuclear bombs in May, 1998. Omar was Vajpayee’s blue eyed boy and he saw in the young man the future of India.

Farooq Abdullah can be credited with having sown the seeds of democracy in Kashmir after militancy eroded the system in the early nineties. He can also be hailed for having stood his ground when no one was ready to stand up to the militants in the valley. The man saw through the worst period in Kashmir history and at that time the situation was so bad that he had to heli-hop a couple of miles if he wanted to play golf – going by car was just too dangerous. Why did Farooq Abdullah stick his neck out for India? His reasoning was very clear – both India and Pakistan are nuclear weapons state and redrawing the boundaries will be very difficult. He talked to the powers that be in Delhi and was assured that India was not going to abandon Kashmir come what may. Farooq took his chances and became the chief minister. He also understands that the future of Kashmir is brighter and better with India rather than with a faltering Pakistan. Slowly but surely Kashmir has come out of the clutches of Pakistan sponsored terrorists and during the last elections the candidates were canvassing riding in open jeeps – such was the atmosphere. I think Omar and Farooq did a yeoman’s service in strengthening democracy when they decided to sit in the opposition when PDP-Congress government was formed. This instilled confidence among the people and a healthy precedence was formed. Of course, next time the National Conference under the father-son duo won and today Omar is the chief minister. I regret to say however, that Mehbooba Mufti is not as good a sport and is finding it hard to have to sit in the opposition. There is commotion every other day in the assembly and that is not what the opposition is supposed to do. People’s money is being wasted when there is no work done in the assembly.

The success of elections in Kashmir has been such that leaders like Sajjad Lone from the Hurriyat decided to fight the elections. Sajjad is a gentleman and he took the cudgels when the NC said that Hurriyat leaders had no following. Sajjad tried to prove that that was not entirely true. He still lost but he gave a very good fight. This was a lesson for the young man that democracy is indeed a tough call to take and those who do get elected have to work really hard. Omar has had his share of education when he lost his Ganderbal seat last time around.  But the credit for bringing back democracy to the valley still goes to the wise not so-old man of Kashmir politics – Farooq Abdullah.

Farooq Abdullah is a man who believes in living life to the hilt. The famous instance when he took Bollywood actress Rekha for a spin on his motorcycle has still not been forgotten. He can be found at most social occasions and loves to party. He is an interesting man.After the last Lok Sabha elections he waited for two days for the cabinet formation and being allotted a portfolio in the government. When he saw Manmohan and the Congress dithering, he took off to South Africa to watch IPL finals wearing a Panama hat, a flowery shirt and white trousers. Of course he had tipped off some of the reporters of his plans and his departure was widely reported in the press. His crass arrogance and devil may care attitude may have hurt some people but he said that his flight was scheduled and he could wait no longer. The Congress gave him a Cabinet position. He had wanted Health and Family Welfare as he is a doctor by profession but was given renewable energy. He accepted what was offered to him without any fuss.

The sensitive side of Farooq Abdullah comes out when one finds him among those who called for a committee to take care of ailing George Fernandez who is fighting a debilitating advanced stage of Parkinson’s.

One can go on and on about Farooq Abdullah. I still don’t know why there are people who are scared of him so. Maybe he knows too much about them all. Before I stop, I cannot help but recall an instance during the late nineties (during the height of militancy in Kashmir) when in the assembly Farooq Abdullah while giving a speech became so emotional that he began to cry, saying that the Kashmiri people are between a rock and a hard place. If they side with the security forces, the militants make their lives hell- if they as much as give food and water to the militants the security forces haul them up. The loud crying by Farooq Abdullah saw his party men begin to cry with him. When the opposition saw the NC members wailing, they too joined in. Finally, the whole house was crying and wailing. It bemuses me no ends when I think of that instance. The king was crying and slowly the whole house was wailing and crying in an unprecedented show of grief at the state of Jammu and Kashmir. Farooq, though did make a point and this incident did mirror the travails of the ordinary Kashmiri.

Lastly, Farooq Abdullah understands that the Kashmir problem is much deeper than people think. During one of the innumerable discussions in the media he mentioned that POK (or Azad Kashmir) was not the only issue, the Northern Areas of Skardu and Gilgit were as important. He also mentioned Shaksgam Tract which is under Chinese occupation. He did say that the Kashmir dispute is in effect a tripartite issue and not just a bilateral issue as is made out to be. The man also realizes that the answers are elusive to say the least.

How does one define Farooq Abdullah – a consummate politician, a good father and a man who knows his job inside out! We need more people like Farooq Abdullah.
=====================

http://www.sunday-guardian.com/buzzword/omar-getting-divorced-wants-to-marry-tv-anchor

‘Omar getting divorced, wants to marry TV anchor’
NORA CHOPRA  11th Sep 2011
If the Delhi grapevine is to be believed, Jammu & Kashmir Chief Minister Omar Abdullah and his wife Payal are getting divorced by mutual consent. The reason behind the break-up is apparently a TV anchor from the state, who the 41-year-old CM wants to marry. The anchor is a divorcee and has been in two live-in relationships since her divorce. But the marriage is being opposed by his father Dr Farooq Abdullah and his party, the National Conference as the lady is not a Muslim. The NC wants Abdullah to marry a Kashmiri Muslim girl. Farooq Abdullah even has a bride ready for him — the sister-in-law of his son's Home Minister, Nasir Aslam Wani. But Omar Abdullah is not listening. Abdullah had married Payal, the daughter of Major General Ram Nath (Retired), a Sikh, in 1994, four years before he entered politics. He has not visited his Akbar Road residence in New Delhi, where Payal lives with their two sons, for the last six months. When asked by this columnist, a close Omar Abdullah aide said on the condition of anonymity, "All I can say is that they are separated." Mixed marriages are common in the Abdullah family. Farooq Abdullah had married a British lady, Omar Abdullah's sister Sarah is married to Sachin Pilot. But conservative Kashmiri politics has not allowed these women to make Srinagar their home.
=====================

http://www.dailytimes.com.pk/default.asp?page=story_16-1-2004_pg7_5

Farooq Abdullah’s daughter weds Rajesh Pilot’s son

By Iftikhar Gilani

NEW DELHI: The youngest daughter of former Held Kashmir chief minister Dr Farooq Abdullah, Sara Abdullah, married the son of deceased Congress stalwart Rajesh Pilot on the outskirts of Delhi on Thursday.

Sachin Pilot and Sara solemnised their marriage as per Hindu rites without anyone from the Abdullah family being present. Sachin and Sara, who had been seeing each other for over a year, entered into wedlock, but Sara’s family members kept away from the ceremony as they were said to be against the marriage.

The newlywed couple later hosted a stream of close friends and relatives at the residence of Sachin’s mother and MP Rama Pilot. Sara’s father and National Conference patron Dr Abdullah was is London while her brother and National Conference President Omar Abdullah is presently under treatment for appendicitis in New Delhi. Family sources said they have nothing to do with the ‘scheduled wedlock’ and in case Sara took the step, she would be doing on her own.

Earlier, the marriage was supposed to be solemnised in November 2003, but was deferred because Sachin’s mother decided to vacate her Lok Sabha seat and contest against current Rajasthan Chief Minister Vasundhara Raje Scindia in the assembly polls held in November. She however lost to Scindia. Sources said Rama Pilot was busy arranging the marriage when the party’s high command asked her to contest in the polls. Sara and Sachin have been in love with each other for a long time due to which they decided to get married even as they belong to different communities and have drawn flak for the move.

Sources said Sarah is studying in London. Though both families knew each other for the past three decades, the love bloomed in London, where Sachin was also studying before joining politics. Rajesh Pilot was the architect of the Rajiv-Farooq accord that helped Farooq regain power on the Congress party’s crutches in 1986. Dr Abdullah has been criticised for his relations with Rajesh Pilot’s family, though he is himself married to a Christian nurse, Molly. Earlier, his son Omar Abdullah married a Sikh girl, Payal Singh, and has two children despite his mother Begum Akbar Jehan’s opposition. While Dr Abdullah’s eldest daughter Safia is married to a Muslim engineer Asif Khan and settled in Jammu and Kashmir, his second daughter Hena is married to an African based black Christian.  Friday, January 16, 2004

==================

http://www.persecution.in/content/kashmir-minister-criticised-saying-conversions-are-unconstitutional


Kashmir: Minister criticised for saying "conversions are unconstitutional"
http://www.asianews.it/news-en/Kashmir:-Minister-criticised-for-sayingt-...

by Nirmala Carvalho
Farooq Abdullah, the current Minister of Renewable Energy, has supported the verdict of expulsion against Christian missionaries, issued by an Islamic court of Kashmir. The Global Council of Indian Christians (GCIC) has sent an official letter to the Prime Minister to request his removal from the government cabinet.

Srinagar (AsiaNews) - The Global Council of Indian Christians (GCIC) asked the Prime Minister Manmohan Singh to expel Farooq Abdullah (pictured), current Minister of Renewable Energy, from the Council of ministers for "anti-constitutional statements." Presented yesterday, the official letter refers to the ambiguous statements made by the Minister to journalists. Commenting on the verdict of expulsion decreed by an Islamic court against five Christian missionaries in Kashmir, Abdullah said: "The promotion of activities of conversion is unconstitutional. We must respect the other's religion. " According to the GCIC, such statements are "a disgrace to the entire government" and "humiliation for the country."

Among the personalities involved in the Shariah court's ruling, are the Anglican pastor CM Khanna and Fr Jim Borst, accused of proselytism and forced conversions by the Grand Mufti of Kashmir. The Pastor’s alleged crime – for which he spent 10 days in jail - is that he baptized 7 young Muslims. They, despite pressure from the police, have always declared that they had converted in full autonomy and freedom. From some time Fr. Borst, Dutch Mill Hill missionary who has spent 49 years in the State, has been accused of proselytism because of his prestigious schools. According to some, the jealousy and envy of Islamic intellectuals are in fact behind the accusations.

In his letter to Singh, the GCIC states: "In supporting the action of an Islamic court, a federal minister has drooped down to the lowest level to endorse the unconstitutional action of self styled Sharia court of expulsion of Indian citizens from the sovereign democratic Republic of India. " According to the Christian organization, " the statement of Janab Abdulla and unilateral decision by the Mufti Azam and his sharia court can lead to the by now universally known “Fatwa,”. What could be the possible consequences, if the religious heads of different religions in a secular country like India begin to issue the orders in the days ahead like the one issued by the Muslim clergyman in Srinagar, to the members of other religions? ".

Considering the composition of his family, however, the statements of Farooq Abdullah are even more surprising. The minister's wife, Molly, is a Christian from London. One daughter is married to Sachin Pilot, Hindu and current Minister of Communications. Another daughter is engaged to a South African Christian. Finally, he himself - as his son Omar Abdullah, the current chief minister of Jammu and Kashmir - studied at the Burn Hall School, a Catholic missionary institute of Fr. Jim Borst.

According to Joseph Dhar, a Brahmin Hindu convert to Christianity, "the statements of Abdullah should not upset me. When it comes to Islam, even a moderate Muslim will not go against their religion. " Perhaps, he stresses, "the Christian leadership in Kashmir should be stronger and defend the missionaries and priests affected by similar accusations. Article 25 of our Constitution guarantees the right to worship, prayer and spreading of religion. This clearly establishes the legality of conversions. "

Submitted by newsman on Fri, 27/01/2012 - 11:50. conversions Kashmir
newsman's blog send to friend

==========================



कोणत्याही टिप्पण्‍या नाहीत:

टिप्पणी पोस्ट करा